No I understood that and I totally agree. There's no in between with fandom - it's either all one way or all the other. Have a lot of crazies in a fandom - that happen to stick out more than everyone else - and the fandom is labeled crazy.

I know, right? It's crazy how one little thing could tear people apart. I haven't really had that yet - hope not to. I really don't want to lose friends over this. :p