i write a lot of femslash porn (SHH, NO HATIN' LOL) and i generally use cunt when referring to the vaginal opening and clit when referring to the clitoris. another good tactic is not using any names for the actual anatomy and just referencing the person by name - e.g. 'mary sue slid her fingers into brittany' or 'jenny clenched roughly around the dildo as she came'. if you want to check it out, i just finished up a buffy/faith for femslash_today and posted it here (http://community.livejournal.com/femslash_today/291881.html?thread=2740265#t2740265).
words to avoid: vagina, pussy (it really takes me out of the fic and makes me go 'eww'), overly pulpy words like sheath, flower of her virginity, etc., and super blunt words like fuckhole. lol.
anyway, that's just how i do it. it's not the only way. :p hope i helped!
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Date: 2010-02-23 07:22 am (UTC)words to avoid: vagina, pussy (it really takes me out of the fic and makes me go 'eww'), overly pulpy words like sheath, flower of her virginity, etc., and super blunt words like fuckhole. lol.
anyway, that's just how i do it. it's not the only way. :p hope i helped!